
SANFORD - Amy Dumas, who's lived "all over, but mostly
in the South," began her sampling tour through life in
Atlanta where she graduated from high school and attended college.
"I studied secondary education because I'd always wanted
to be a middle school teacher. Somehow, this age that a lot
of people consider difficult has a real appeal for me. These
kids are capable for the first time of learning life's lessons,
and I wanted to be a
part of the process." Being "part of the process"
also meant following her basic instincts
and exploring whatever was out there, so Amy was playing bass
guitar and performing with local bands at the same time. "And,
being a spur- of-the-moment type of person, I decided to take
up martial arts as well," she says. This is when something
clicked - the idea that fusing a rock star image with a martial
arts role could be a winning combination in the entertainment
world - and education was pushed to the back burner.
The story could have ended here, either with Amy's successes
on stage or a return to her original objective in the educational
field. However, it detoured when a friend insisted that she
watch the wrestling matches on television. "It was something
I'd never done
before, but looking at the performers I found myself getting
really excited and thinking, 'Well, since I'm already far into
studying martial arts, why not make wrestling my next move?'"
THIS WAS 1998, and a Mexican movement wrestling style called
Luche Libre was all the rage, "something more acrobatic
than regular wrestling," Amy says. "So I located a
school in Mexico City and started training for the ring."
Because what she was doing felt right from the very beginning,
Amy says she worked hard to get noticed in smaller federations,
always keeping an eye on a larger goal, constantly refining
her act and forwarding videotapes of her matches to World Wide
Entertainment.
"Getting noticed is what it takes," she says. "It's
all a matter of being in the right place at the right time."
The breaks were with her and by November 1999, Amy had scored
the big one. In one year, far less time than it takes most wrestlers
to get there, she was added to the roster of WWE stars as "Lovely
Lita." The designation stuck, although Amy says there was
a time lapse before she got used to the new moniker.
A name change wasn't the only surprise in store for the pulchritudinous
pugilist when she joined. "Along the way I'd met Matt Hardy
from Cameron, when we were both wrestling in independent shows;
and when I got to WWE, I found he was there as well. Soon we
were being teamed on the circuit, sometimes in a threesome that
included
Matt's brother, Jeff. Initially there was nothing serious between
us other than our common interest in wrestling, which Matt eats,
sleeps and breathes.
"However, he recognized my determination and dedication
and respected me for what I was doing and gradually a strong
connection was formed. You can't say we became an immediate
item, but our careers meshed and we've remained close ever since.
We have an 'on camera/off camera' relationship in a business
where illusion is primary Š where it's
difficult to tell the real from the imaginary.
"For us, it's perfect. With two people who are constantly
busy Š on the road three hundred days a year and regularly
performing in fifty three different countries Š time for
outsiders would doubtless have been impossible anyway."
Most importantly, says Amy, their friendship brought about a
big change in Matt's life. "Although he'd never been a
big animal lover, he knew what dogs mean to me and came to accept
that as a given in our relationship."
WITH A SUCCESSFUL CAREER and a wonderful man in her life, Amy's
story appeared to be heading toward a fairy tale ending at this
point. Then her saga turned into a nightmare.
It was April 2002 when Amy, who'd been hired to do the season's
finale of the Fox TV series "Dark Angel," was engaged
in a colossal fight scene when something terrible occurred.
"The stunt person with whom I was working dropped me on
my head and, although I didn't realize it at the time, my neck
was broken." At first, while she couldn't lift her left
arm, Amy says she wasn't worried because she could feel movement
in her fingers and toes. "Injuries are very common in wrestling,
so I wasn't that concerned. Just figured it would take a while
to get over the numbness. But, the pain increased
instead and after another examination the doctors determined
that I actually did have a broken neck."
Following this diagnosis, Amy was flown to San Antonio to go
under the knife of a neurosurgeon noted for working on injured
paratroopers. "Suddenly I was severely limited physically.
From exercising in the gym seven days a week I had come to a
screeching halt, and it was nightmarish."
After surgery Amy was fitted with a hard collar, which she
had to wear constantly for the next four months. "If my
profession had been normal, something like a desk job, I probably
could have been back at work in a few weeks. Instead, I was
housebound and thoroughly depressed. I'd just moved to Sanford
when it happened, and the only
people I knew were my immediate neighbors."
WRACKING HER BRAIN about how to occupy herself "to keep
from falling into an even deeper depression," Amy thought
of what she'd done as a teenager. "Growing up, my father
would never allow me to have a pet at home. So I'd worked at
kennels and pet shops and with a vet, just to be around animals."
After her 18th birthday, Amy moved away and got her very own
dog from the Atlanta Humane Society. She named him
Cody, and they were inseparable until he passed away in April
2003.
Even though she was wearing the hard collar, Amy was still
doing promotional work for WWE. "I was making personal
appearances and signing autographs about once every week or
two, but I had extra time on my hands. So I started volunteering
at CARA here in Sanford and at Moore County's new arrival center
for animals. I needed that boost you get from animals, just
hanging out and talking to them, cleaning cages and doing light
stuff. Also, I particularly couldn't stand being alone in the
house after Cody died of cancer."
Bringing another pet into her life so soon after Cody's death
didn't seem an option to Amy, who was still grieving for her
best friend and getting ready to go on the road as soon as the
surgeon gave his OK. "I go back to San Antonio every two
months for check-ups and to get a new prescription for my activity
level," Amy explains. Although
she works out regularly at Nautilus, she says this can't possibly
replicate the pounding that goes on in the ring. "The surgeon
is a great man, who understands what my professional life means
to me," she continues.
"So, instead of telling me never to go back, he's teaching
me to be totally aware of my body and how to stay on top of
any injury that might occur."
SIX WEEKS after Cody's death a tiny wire-haired Dachshund and
Lhasa apso mix pup was dumped by his former owner at the Moore
County Animal Control Center.
It took one look and Amy had a new best friend, a cunning animal
who knew what he wanted and used his wiles to get it. "I
had nothing to do with it. Mason selected me," Amy confesses.
"I call him my little pocket pet, and he goes every place
with me. He loves airplane trips and thoroughly enjoys autograph
sessions where he shows off like a
little ham."
Determining to make use of Mason's star power, Amy says she
decided to stage "a last hurrah for pets before I return
to work full time. It's a local kickoff for my latest project,
A.D.O.R.E. (Amy Dumas Operation and Rescue), at Aberdeen Lake
Park, as a way of strengthening my bond with the community.
We're calling it Lita's ADOREable Pet Celebration, a celebration
to promote animal welfare and a day of fun for pets and people.
There will be a ton of activities, and all the proceeds will
be donated to Carolina Animal Rescue and Adoption and the Moore
County Animal Center."
AMY'S PLATE, which was already brimming, will soon be even
fuller. When she wasn't doing promotions for WWE or volunteering
at the rescue centers, she was writing a book, "A Lesser
Traveled ROAD - The Reality of Amy Dumas," which will be
published by Simon & Schuster in September. Due date is
the 16th, and shortly thereafter Amy will be on the road for
a dual purpose. "My author's tour is being set up to coincide
with wrestling events," Amy says. "So that means a
fall of travel for Mason and me. But he loves it, and as long
as he's with me, everything will be fine."
Obviously, Mason is finding that a dog's life can also turn
into a surprisingly sumptuous banquet.
Credit: Anne Marie and the Sanford Herald